That's because we don't want a penis, we just want bigger boobs and flat tummies.

You can get an operation for that...

It's called mental illness, darling. so shut the fuck up. Body dysmorphia is a real thing, and i'm sick of it being seen as just people complaining.

I am sure there are guys and FTM trans people who want what you have and feel the same way about you. It is fine to have problems with your body, but putting down other people who feel the same way is hypocritical.

Technically, so are you. There are girls (boys) who CRY because they want what you have. Why are you taking your body for granted?


(Note: Fully support LGBT rights, just pointing out another side to OP)

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I was also molested by my cousins for seven years. I finally told my mom just last week and it stopped five years ago and I'm 19 now.... don't be stupid like me and tell someone... I promise you'll feel loads better!

Yet you told us.

you have to tell someone. stop thinking that not telling someone will benefit you or anyone else. You're letting them get away with this. Your cousins are a bunch of low life losers and they shouldn't get away from harming you.

and don't even think about forgiving them, it's just not worth it.

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how old are you and how old are your cousins?

How about you don't forgive them? People like that should have a cactus rammed up their asshole.

u have to tell someone

By telling someone. It might be hard, but you gotta do it.

You need to tell someone

For f*cks sake, OP, tell someone.

So what's your problem? If you don't want your mom to think you had sex, tell her you didn't. She may not believe, but who cares? - if you have a boyfriend, you have every right to sleep with him. End of story.

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Maybe tell your mom that then?

It's your MOMS fault for immediately assuming "slept with" meant sex. So, no they don't need to choose their words better.

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do i know you?

Or you fell asleep. Just saying, it's a possibility.

HEY.
WATCH YOUR FUCKIN' LANGUAGE.
And you may want to tell someone about that... but only once you're sure about whether he did do something or not, because it's definitely not smart to just blame everything on a lack of a memory. You know, we make up memories in our heads very often that never happened. It could be that you "remember" laying on the bed with the person, but the "memory" never evolved farther from there. Just a guess~

I don't want to downplay molestation, but if you have no memories of anything bad, chances are you are just forgetful. I only have few isolated memories of most of my life. That doesn't mean that bad things were constantly happening to me; I just have a terrible memory for things other than facts and school lessons. I can't even remember what I ate for lunch yesterday, but it doesn't mean I was molested at lunch time. I think that you should let this go and just focus on fixing your issues and life in the present. Dwelling on it won't fix anything, it will likely just make your problems worse.

Look, there's just as much chance nothing happened as there is that something did.

You can be f*cked up without being molested.